A general agreement does not authorise a specific send
An agreement given on a working method validates the way of proceeding, not a send whose content has not yet been shown: the approval to send names the text and the recipients, or the category of sends that a standing authorisation itself designates.
Typical case: a person approves the working method for a batch of messages, and her answer is then read as an authorisation to send. The messages go out to outside recipients before their text and their list have been shown to her.
What a method agreement covers
An agreement given on a plan in several steps validates the shape of the plan, not each of its details. A short answer, agreed or carry on, given on a way of proceeding, names neither the text that will go out nor the recipients, since this content does not yet exist when it is given. Among the steps of a batch, sending to a third party has a status of its own: a file written or a search run can be corrected as long as nobody outside has seen them, a message that has gone out is hard to catch back. Some mail systems offer a recall, but Outlook's documentation reserves it for recipients in the same organisation who have not yet opened the message: an outside customer is beyond its reach.
Why the confusion recurs
A word like agreed applies equally to a method and to a send, and its form does not say which of the two it covers: it is the question asked just before that decides. Naming the content and the recipients in the request removes the ambiguity, since the question can then only be read one way.
A standing authorisation also exists, and it is legitimate when it names the category it covers itself, for example the acknowledgements of receipt of a form, with a text fixed once and for all. It is also the right form for a batch too large to be shown message by message, such as several hundred personalised texts: the agreement then covers the text template, the personalisation rule and the source list, named together. What does not hold is the silent extension of a method agreement to a send it did not name.
A template for the request
Request for approval of this send:
Exact content: [paste the final text of the message, word for word, or the template and its personalisation rule]
Recipients: [list each address, or name the source list and the criterion that produces it]
Scope: this approval applies to this batch of messages and to it alone
Question: do you approve sending this text to these recipients?
The lesson on the human checkpoint before an irreversible action sets out the same principle for a file deletion: the check goes before the action that cannot be undone.
The approval circuit before an irreversible send
A writer tells his manager: "I'm proofreading the customer batch messages in two passes, spelling then tone, and then I run them through the sending tool. Does that work for you?" The manager replies: "OK." The writer finishes the proofreading and sends the whole batch to customers the next day.
Write in one sentence what this situation establishes, and in one sentence what it does not establish.
What this establishes: The manager replied OK to a question that described the proofreading method and then the move to the sending tool, and the batch went out the next day.
What this does not establish: It does not establish that the manager saw the final text of the messages or the list of customer recipients, nor therefore that he approved what the customers received.
The three most common miscalibrations
- Too broad The OK reply covered sending these messages to these customers, since the question announced the move to the sending tool.
- Too narrow The situation establishes that the manager received the question, and nothing about the answer he gave to the method described.
- Beside the point The situation establishes that the customers had agreed to receive messages from this company.
- A short answer on a way of proceeding does not cover content that did not exist when it was given.
- The request for approval to send quotes the final text and the recipients, or the category that defines them, so that it can only be read one way.
- Recalling a message, where it exists, depends on conditions the sender does not control, such as the recipient's organisation.
- A standing authorisation is valid when it names the category of sends it covers, whereas a method agreement does not extend into an authorisation to send.
Before your next group send to outside recipients, write a separate approval request that quotes the final text and the list of recipients, or for a large batch the template and the source list, even if the method has already been approved, and wait for an answer that covers this batch before sending.
Every datable claim in this lesson links here to the public text behind it. A source that does not open proves nothing.
- Microsoft, recall or replace a sent message in Outlook, consulted on 2026-09-28 consultée le 2026-09-28